Addressing Hard Topics with Love

I invite you to join me in discussing some challenging topics: biblical foundations, perceptions, and world-changing ideas. Every year, we host a free training event in Youngstown, Ohio, welcoming churches, volunteers, and leaders to learn about engaging with people with disabilities—whether they're kids, teens, or adults. We've even added a kids' training to ensure our congregation loves and welcomes everyone, making the gospel accessible in every way possible.

Beyond Physical Accessibility

Accessibility isn't just about physical spaces. Yes, we need to ensure our buildings are accessible, but we also need to engage socially and spiritually. Do we build genuine relationships and friendships? Do we believe that everyone can grow spiritually? It's crucial to disciple and teach people that they are co-laborers with us in Christ.

Serving People with Disabilities: The Intentional Approach

The question of how best to serve people with disabilities is broad, as everyone is unique. For instance, meeting two individuals with autism will show you just how different they can be. This diversity impacts our approach, but intentionality is key. We need to be purposeful and plan how to make everyone feel comfortable in our churches.

Practical Steps to Welcome Everyone

At my home church, welcoming new families begins at the check-in desk. We ask two essential questions: Are there any allergies we should be aware of? Are there any special needs we should know about? These questions are not meant to restrict but to open the door for understanding and serving their children best.

For example, when a new family arrives, and I learn about a child's special needs, I don’t push for a diagnosis. Instead, I ask about preferences and challenges: What upsets them? What helps when they're sad? What do they enjoy? This approach allows us to serve them without needing detailed medical information.

Creating a Welcoming Environment

When a child struggles emotionally, I prefer to find solutions without disrupting their parents’ experience. Simple acts, like offering a quiet spot with busy bags or engaging them in conversation, can make a significant difference. For teens, similar check-ins and conversations help us build rapport and understanding.

Building a Culture of Inclusion

It's essential to be intentional and prepare our facilities and programs for individuals with disabilities. This includes having sensory bags, earplugs, and ASL interpreters readily available. Our efforts should extend beyond infrastructure to creating a culture of awareness and inclusion within the entire congregation.

Engaging the Whole Church Community

Engage your congregation with disability awareness days and in-house training sessions. These efforts help ensure that people with disabilities are served well and can grow and serve within the church community. While I don't have all the answers or do everything perfectly, I'm committed to continuing this vital conversation.

Let's work together so people of all abilities can know Christ, grow in Him, and serve with the gifts He has given them.