Teens and Disabilities, a forgotten group

It's a stage in life where fitting in and being accepted by peers feels crucial. Yet, for some, this quest for belonging often involves "masking"—suppressing natural behaviors to meet social expectations. While sometimes necessary, this can prevent individuals from fully embracing who they were created to be.

There's a significant gap that needs to be addressed. During these formative teenage years, being in survival mode rather than thriving feels all too familiar. The fear of bullying, stigmatization, or misunderstandings often pushes students to hide their true selves.

The experiences of teens, especially with autism or adhd, are further complicated because they tend to think in rigid and logical patterns. This difference in cognitive processing makes it challenging when sarcasm, jokes, and social nuances are part of everyday teenage communication. Misunderstandings can sometimes lead to social exclusion.

To navigate these challenges, youth ministries need to foster environments where differences in thinking and processing are understood and respected. Churches can play a pivotal role by creating an inclusive culture for teenagers. Peer support systems can be a lifeline, helping us navigate difficult social situations, while involving parents can provide leaders with insights into our specific needs and concerns.

But it’s not just about accommodation. The ultimate goal is to help teenagers with disabilities understand that we belong in the body of Christ and have meaningful contributions to make. It's crucial for teens to discover their spiritual gifts and have opportunities to serve others. When churches celebrate neurodiversity and highlight our unique strengths and perspectives, it sends a powerful message: "You are loved, you are valued, God has a purpose for your life, and you belong."

This affirmation can transform teenage experiences from one of hiding behind a mask to one of authentic spiritual growth and community engagement. By walking alongside me through these challenges, celebrating my growth, and providing outlets for my God-given abilities, churches can help me truly thrive.